Jim-in-France

[Ugly Betty]

Has anyone seen him lately? I hope he's okay.

[johnc10]

Hopefully he's coping with his grief and will be back soon

[curly]

Yes, I'm sure he'll be back soon.

[baldy.smith]

Jim was logged onto the site in the early hours of last Thursday, but he has not posted since early November.

Come on Jim, we need your imput mate!

[StottieCake]

He will know now that we haven't forgotten. Even if he doesn't feel like talking.

[Jim_in_France]

Thank you to everyone! I am still around. I am having a big problem coming to terms with Peters death. I drink a lot and take p*lls to help me cope. Not good I know, but its the only way I can do it! Thank you to those who have sent msgs. I cant reply, as each day I toy with suicide. But I cant do it, as I still have family. I wish I were free to do as I wish, but sadly, I have others to consider. Aint life a beach!

[baldy.smith]

Jim, I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through.
Concern was expressed about you at the Sanddancer meeting last night.
Our thoughts are with you jim, and remember , we think of ourselves as
a family and of you as a member of it. We all hope that things will get
better for you.

[kitten]

Thats lovely what you said Baldy and hope you are keeping well..

Jim, I also have been thinking about you and wondering how you were..
This is a hard time Christmas without your loved one, but you must keep thinking how would Peter feel knowing you was like this..
He wanted to live, you must not give up, that is what he would want..
Try hard to slow down on the drinking thats a depresant and wont help you at all..
All the best, sure do hope you will start feeling better soon.
Also Jim, dont forget how you felt about your friend who commited suicide, you was not happy about that, please do not put others through the same thing, be tough, be strong, you will fight this and you will feel better..XX

[anna]

[jimmywizz]

hi jim, just hang in there, thinks will seem black now but sunny days will soon come

[danet]

I also think of you often, Jim, my thoughts and prayers are with you. You will get through the grief, but give it time, and as you say, you still have family that love you. Hope you pop in now and then to write to us in the forum, anything that will help is good.

[andysfootball]

every day will be easier

there is always hope in the future

and life is everything

you would leave as much grief behind with suicide as your friend did

probably even more

as that was bad luck

get yourself away on a holiday

immerse yourself in some new pastime or hobby

somewhere right off the beaten bloody track

never give up

tomorrow is always the first day of the rest of your life

choose life

[anna]

Well Said ........... =D> =D> =D>

[brian c]

When your on the bottom the only way is up.


It can only get better.


So hang on in there Jim were all behind you.

[Blue...]

keep your chin up Jim lad...